Following what could only be called a whirlwind romance in Bangalore, where everything just fell into place like pieces of a jig-saw puzzle (to the point that it was a little scary), we reached the other extreme in Goa where the glass shattered and we were exposed to a side of each other than we had possibly never fathomed.
While this might have made many a person throw in their cards, it made no difference to me. Not that I disregarded everything that I learnt about this man in Goa, but just that I refrained from judgement. We had our talks about what I believed was acceptable behavior to me and what was not, and he had his own issues to raise with me. We're trying to find a compromise :)
This man, this rather complex and contrary man, with his moods, and his hang ups (that i sometimes don't agree with), who is tremendously vocal, and yet dies at the slightest hint of PDA (im working on that), who makes me feel special, makes me laugh, takes my case, doesn't play cards (wtf??!) and thinks my endless chatter and cuddle noises are entertaining.. This man, is a man I would very proudly call my boy friend.. if the cards permit.
Because as is befitting its very twisted sense of humor, the universe has thrown us together with barely any time before I leave the city for college. Now we don't know what we're going to do, and we haven't made any decisions, and I don't even know if we know what we want to happen..... so I have to fall back on my tried and tested phrase of 'Have faith'.
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ReplyDeleteThank you very much.. Keep reading... :)
ReplyDeleteDon't go!!!!
ReplyDeleteam assuming this is sharmi.. haha.. i dont have a choice!! i lack the strength of character to tell my parents im staying back for a boy!! :)
ReplyDeletehaha sharmon, vivek just cleared the confusion up about who you are... i dont want to go :(... you havent followed my blog yet :)
ReplyDeleteLee, you must pack him in your bag and take him along with you.
ReplyDeleteI know! its the only way...!
ReplyDeleteAh! I see that love has not only blinded you to his surprisingly spindly legs but has also dulled your sense of smell. IF he stopped smoking and brushed his teeth more often, then even EYE would be “proud to call him my boyfriend”. Until then, he remains an unwelcome pain in my butt and you are most welcome to take him with you!
ReplyDeletePS : Cant wait to meet you when I am not drunk / sleepy / overwhelmed by your boyfriends deteriorating sense of hygiene.
MWAH!
ReplyDeleteDarius, I regret to tell you i share your concern over viveks dubious sense of oral hygiene :) we MUST meet before i leave though.. Vivek has started too many stories, and then cut off with 'ask darius, he'll tell you'...I need to fill in the gaps!
ReplyDeletePS: I love your house :)